The ‘baby’s daddy’ type of guy treats his girl like a child,
he tells her what to do when to do it and how he wants
it done. This type of guy is an abuser, a woman is a
slave to him. He trains her to answer to his voice alone.
‘Baby’s daddies’ like to isolate their women from what’s
familiar to her, he’ll take her away from her family after
a pretense of showing he is going to give her nothing
but tender loving care. Once he gets her far enough
away from all that’s familiar to her, he will start to
‘raise’ the girl again, to be obedient only to him. This
type of guy professes his love for the woman as if he
was throwing a bone to a dog. As if to say, ‘see,
your master can be good to you and give you things,
if you obey’.
The ‘seedy greedy’ type hates women. You can’t
tell by the way he flirts with women. Seeing this
type in action gives a false sense that this guy loves
women so much he can’t be settled down with just
one. In fact, his flirtations has two uses for him. It’s
used as a torture tool against the woman he’s actually
dating, and it is used as tool to lure women into his
deviant life, where he proceeds to use them up and
spit them out.
This type doesn’t look to make a woman happy,
unless he wants to raise her spirit so high, that when
he pushes her back down again, the pain from the
fall will devastate the woman, that obvious
devastation in her acts as a drug for him, it get’s
him off, it puts him on a high. Funny enough, the
woman tends to cling to him even more, as if he
is her only lifeline.
This type has the beginning marks of a sado-
masochist relationship type. To this type of guy,
it’s not about sexual perversions, but about control,
if this person can find a few people he can control,
it makes him feel omnipotent, like a small god. The
more he can degrade them or cause them to degrade
themselves, the more powerful he feels.
Freud wrote, that the sadistic personality was
someone who, regardless of his sexual proclivities,
needed to feel in control of others, often demeaning
them and making them feel dependent upon his
strength and power. The masochist, in turn, was not
just a person with a sexual perversion, but one who
felt safe and secure under the control of a stronger
person who told him what to do and how to live.
The women that he entrap are already ‘broken
women’. Women who are lost when they are
alone, in some cases, women who have been
in some way, sexually abused. There’s this
crazy scientific fact that says that in most cases
of people that have experienced a rape or
abuse in their past, remembered or not,
they are destined to be victimized again.
It’s the weirdest thing, but unfortunately
very true. The women in this type of guy’s
life are being victimized.
Rational thought will be, ‘what does this
guy have that makes her allow him so
much control’. Really, it’s not what he
has, it’s what she doesn’t have. Eventually,
he will be done with girl, when he has made
her do the ultimate thing, only he knows what
that will be, he will leave her to move on to
the next prey. The woman that he leaves
behind, will only be a shadow of what she
The ‘butcher’ the ‘baker’ the ‘candlestick maker’.
The ‘butcher’ is just a guy that likes to get right
down to business, no finesse, no pretense,
straight to the bone. He he is touchy, feely
and he makes it known right away what he
wants and if you say no, he’ll get pushy, when
you finally get your message across he turns
on you and cuts you to the quick, He will
call you every degrading name in the book.
The ‘baker’ is someone who does things
slow, he will say he is going to call, but
two weeks go by and no phone call, so
you call him and you go out once more.
He again says he’ll call, but a week goes
by and no call from this guy comes.
For the ‘baker’ women are like kneading
dough, he lets it rests for a while,
refrigerate it even, and if he can’t find a
better loaf of bread on the shelf, he’ll
come back to you and knead some more.
A lot of girls don’t make it to the oven
cause the ‘baker’ actually hates to bake,
he’ll much rather take someone else’s
work off the shelves then make his own.
The ‘candlestick maker’ is a guy that
loves to mold his women. He likes to
get them while they’re young and
basically he will use hints to show a
woman what looks good on her,
before you know it, she’s wearing
what he wants her to wear.
He’ll hint that her friends are seeing
more of her then he is, and before
you know it, she’s seeing less of her
He’s not really abusive at first, he
does things by using subtle hints,
coercion, and by showing her a lot of
appreciation when she does things
that he’s hinted at her to do.
I sometimes call ‘candlestick makers’
wives, STEPFORD BRIDES’. If
you don’t know that term, or the
term, Stepford Wives, look it up
and you’ll get the idea.
There are many, many more types I
could write about, the list could run on
forever. I’ve heard some professors say,
‘when you write, stick with what you know’,
well the types I’ve discussed here are types
that I see everyday in my family. While I
didn’t name names, I very well could have
as well as given you their stories, but it was
enough just to write about them all in a round
Oftentimes, some of them are several types at
the same time. lmao These types may or may not
fit someone you know, if it does, it wasn’t on
purpose. I was just tired of hearing how some of
the women in my family just keep doing the same
things over and over again and for 2 of them in particular,
their health is in serious danger, so I wrote this in order
to get rid of some frustrations. But it is also done in a
‘tongue and cheek’ manner, cause I try to get the humor
out of everyday life so my everyday life doesn’t drive
me to drink.